Art as a Healing Process: How Painting Helped Me Cope with Loss

Behind the story of Promises Kept shows a drawing board in front of a window with a snowy landscape outside, featuring sketches of various dogs , creating a cozy and artistic scene with wintery charm

Art as a Path to Healing

Art has always been more than a hobby for me. It’s a lifeline, a therapeutic outlet that helps me navigate life’s challenges, especially during times of loss. Painting has been my solace and strength, helping me cope with grief in life and rescue work. Through creativity, I honor loved ones lost and connect with others who share similar experiences. I use creativity as a healing process.

Creativity takes many forms. Each offers its own unique way of helping us process emotions, honor loved ones, and build connections with others who understand our experiences. Here are some other types of creativity that can be profoundly therapeutic and that I have used:

Writing

Journaling, storytelling, or poetry can provide a safe space to express feelings that might be difficult to share aloud. Writing allows you to reflect on memories, articulate emotions, and give voice to your grief or joy. Sharing your writing, whether in a memoir, blog, or personal letter, can foster connections with others who relate to your story.

Music

Playing an instrument, singing, or even creating playlists can help channel emotions into sound. Music has a way of tapping into feelings that words alone can’t express, offering a release and a way to honor your loved ones through melody or rhythm

Photography

Capturing moments through a camera lens allows you to preserve memories or find beauty in the present. Creating photo collages or albums of loved ones can be a meaningful way to celebrate their lives and keep their spirit alive visually. They don’t have to be on a professional level to be fun and relaxing. My great granddaughters love taking photos even if they are headless or just the floor. They make us all laugh with the fun.

Relaxing with my camera, taking pictures as a creative healing process.

Crafting

From knitting and sewing to woodworking and jewelry-making, hands-on crafts provide a tactile outlet for emotions. Creating something tangible can be grounding and serve as a physical reminder of the love and memories you cherish.

Gardening

Planting a memorial garden or simply nurturing plants can be a symbolic and meditative way to process grief. Above all, watching life grow and thrive under your care can be healing and remind you of the ongoing cycle of life.

Dance and Movement

Dance, yoga, or even walking with intention can help you express emotions physically, offering a sense of release and connection to your body. In addition, movement allows you to work through feelings in a dynamic, freeing way.

Cooking or Baking

Preparing meals or baking can be both comforting and creative. It’s a way to honor traditions, make recipes that remind you of loved ones, or share your creations with others as a way to connect. When I bake my grandmother’s recipes I can picture her there sharing and how her kitchen looked when she baked.

Collage and Scrapbooking

Creating scrapbooks or collages with photos, letters, and mementos can be a therapeutic way to revisit cherished memories and preserve them in a meaningful, artistic way. Overall, creativity as a healing process can be meaningful.

Painting and Drawing

Beyond portraits, abstract art or doodling can be a way to express emotions that feel too complex for words. Letting your hand flow freely on the page or canvas can uncover feelings you didn’t even realize you had.

Creative Writing for Legacy

Writing letters to loved ones, creating memory books, or penning fictionalized stories inspired by real-life experiences can help channel feelings and ensure that cherished memories and emotions are preserved for future reflection or sharing.

Each of these forms of creativity as a healing process offers an opportunity to process emotions, celebrate loved ones, and connect with yourself and others. No matter which medium you choose, the act of creating allows you to transform grief into beauty and to find healing in expression.

Finding Solace in Creativity

Grief is a weighty, often isolating experience, and after losing several beloved pets over the years, I struggled to find a way to process the pain. So, painting became my refuge. It wasn’t just a distraction—it was a way to channel my emotions into something meaningful. With each brushstroke, I felt closer to the pets I had lost. Capturing their likeness on canvas allowed me to honor their memory and celebrate the love they brought into my life. In addition, painting their faces and the spark in their eyes was like holding onto a piece of them, preserving their spirit in a form that I could always look back on. Creativity as a healing process is powerful.

The Healing Power of Art

Picture of 17 dogs and a few cats I rescued on the cover of Promises Kept by Dr. Susie Myers

In Promises Kept, my book about the dogs I’ve rescued and lost, I share how their memories have left an indelible mark on my heart and my art. Painting their portraits became an act of remembrance—a way to say, “You mattered. You were loved.” Art transformed my grief into something beautiful, turning pain into purpose. Every time I pick up a paintbrush, I feel their presence guiding me, reminding me of the joy and unconditional love they gave so freely. It’s a healing process, one that allows me to reflect on the bond we shared while also moving forward with gratitude.

Connecting with Others Through Art

What I’ve come to appreciate most about art is its ability to create connections. When I share my paintings and the stories behind them, I often find others who have experienced similar losses. Art opens the door to conversations about grief, love, and healing, creating a sense of community that reminds us we’re not alone in our struggles. The act of sharing isn’t just therapeutic for me—it’s an invitation for others to find their own solace in creativity.

Whether it’s painting, writing, music, or another form of expression, creativity offers a powerful outlet for emotions we may struggle to articulate.Creativity as a healing process is strong. If you’ve ever faced loss or hardship, I encourage you to explore art as a way to process your feelings. It doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be yours. The beauty of art lies in its ability to transform pain into something meaningful and to remind us, even in the depths of grief, of the enduring power of love and connection.

Safe journeys and Happy Thanksgiving,

Susie

About The Author

Dr. Susie

I reside in Northeast Ohio after traveling from coast to coast and living in both rural and metropolitan areas from Los Angeles to New York and of course the Midwest. I am an author and third generation artist and have been painting since the early 1960s. I have always cared deeply about animals, both domestic and wild, and the preservation of endangered species, has always been a concern as well. Most recently, I was involved in animal rescue work, finding homes for over 11,000 dogs and cats over the previous 12 years. It's only natural then, that I am drawn to animals and nature for my art subjects. I have also explored the metaphysical including creative imagination, Reiki, crystal healing, tai chi, feng shui and yoga and feel they add depth to my art as well. By creating an emotional connection for the viewer I hope my artwork will create concern and compassion for our natural world and its wild inhabitants, and help stimulate conservation efforts. My love of historic buildings and their conservation led me to doing the house portraits and my architectural works

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